Musings of a Morbid, Feminist, Pansexual in Oklahoma

I really connected with this Tedx Talk. As i've grown older and have been through some incredibly difficult situations, i've learned that some things just aren't worth my time and energy. Some people are also not worth my time and energy.. and that's okay. There is no reason to keep toxic people in your life, but it can be hard to let them go. I struggled to let go of toxic people because I didn't want to be seen as someone who just "throws people away" and I didn't want to let go of those who wanted to be a part of my life because I felt like no one else would want to come into my life and deal with my crazy. I also felt obligated to do a lot of things that I didn't want to do because others wanted me to, society wanted me to, or I felt like I should. After my last attempt on my life I found a passion for life and vowed to cut out the crap that didn't add value and joy to my existence. This video put what I am trying to do into perfect wo...

I love my family and am so lucky to have them. To me, family is not defined by blood. I do not have many blood family members, but I have plenty of family that provide love, support, happiness, excitement, and laughter. These are the people who have been through so much with me. I would do anything for them. This is not an exhaustive list, but these are my closest family  members. Mom  Dad Amber, my roommate and bestie  Harmony, my soul sister  Colten aka Bub, my little brother  Kurtis, the homie Ashley, my sister for all intents and purposes Matthew, my boyfriend My Fur Babies, Nikki Noodle and BooBoo KittyF**k

So, who is Bria Waters?  Weirdo.  MSW. Feminist. Pansexual. Southern Girl. Animal Lover. Family Services Coordinator.  Traveler.  Survivor.  Dork.  Daughter. Sister.  Fur Momma. Girlfriend. Roommate. Water Baby. Dancer. Tattoo Enthusiast. Oddities Collector. I am starting this blog as a form of self-care. I will use this as a place to talk about my personal life, death, equality, mythology, my experiences/stories, grief, inspiration, LGBTQIA issues, travel, my goals/ aspirations, and anything that interests me at the time. I love meeting new people and having new experiences. I have so much that I want to do. This is a place for me to get it all out. Come along with me on my journey!